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sshImcnI
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GXp kmlNcys¯bpw bpàn`{Zambn
t\cnSphm\pÅ am\knIamb Hcp¡wþ AXmWv sshImcnI]IzXbpsS
ASnØm\{]amWw. |
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kz´w
hnImc§sf Xncn¨dnbpI, hnImc§sf \nb{´n¨v
hcpXnbn \ndp¯pI, kzbw {]tNmZ\¯n\p hgnsbmcp¡pI,
A\ycpsS hnImc§Ä AwKoIcn¡pI, a\pjy_Ô§Ä
kaNn¯XtbmsS ssIImcyw sN¿pI F¶nhbmWv sshImcnI]IzXbpsS
am\§Ä.
HcmÄ F{Xam{Xw sshImcnI]IzXbpÅbmfmsW¶p \nÝbn¡p¶Xv
A©p LSI§sf Bkv]Zam¡nbmWv. 1. kzbmht_m[w (self
awarness) 2. DÕmlw (motivation)
3. Bß\nb{´Ww (self
Control) 4. X·bo`mhw (empathy)
5. _Ô§fnse ZrVX (adaptness
in relationship). Cu A©p LSI§Ä ka\zbn¨v
Hcmfn {]hÀ¯n¡pt¼mgmWv sshImcnI]IzX
BÀÖn¡p¶Xv.
Bß\nb{´Ww sshImcnI]IzXbpsS BWn¡ÃmWv.
a\Ênsâ _me³kv \jvSs¸Sp¶XmWv PohnX]cmPb§fpsS
ASnØm\w. am\knI\ne XIcmdnem¡p¶ ]ncnapdp¡§sfbpw
s\Käohp Nn´Isfbpw \nb{´n¡phm³ km[n¡Ww.
Al¦mchpw ]pÑ`mhhpw Hgnhm¡Ww. kXys¯
[n¡cn¡epw a\pjysc \nµn¡epamWv Al¦mcw.
aäpÅhÀ¡p s\Käohv A\p`h§Ä
sImSp¡cpXv. kt´mjhpw {]kmZmßIXbpw A´Êpw
\ndª kao]\§fneqsSbmWv sshImcnI]IzX ssIhcn¡m³
IgnbpI.
Ìo^³ sImth FgpXnb The
Seven Habits of highly Effective People F¶ ]pkvXI¯nÂ
hiyXbmÀ¶ hyànXz¯n\v Hcp XXzw {]Xn]mZn¨n«pWvSv:
""Be Proactive''.
t{]m BIvSohmIpI F¶ XXzamWXv. {]XnkÔnIfn bpàn]qÀÆw
\S¯p¶ {]XnIcWs¯bmWv t{]mþBIvSohv F¶p
hntijn¸n¡p¶Xv.
sS³jsâ \nanj§fnepw a\Êp im´w. AkzØXIfpsS
\Sphnepw ]p©ncn XqIp¶ apJw. {]tIm]n¸n¡s¸Spt¼mgpw
kaNn¯X. Ipäs¸Sp¯nbmepw ImtXmÀ¡p¶
ssien; Xocm\jvS¯nepw a\:im´n. ]cmPb¯nepw ip`m]vXnhnizmkw,
amdmtcmKapsWvS¦nepw \jvSs¸Sm¯ \À½t_m[w.
AhnizkvXX ImWn¨mepw hnizkvXX. sXäpIÄ BhÀ¯n¨mepw
£atbmsSbpÅ Im¯ncn¸v. shdp¯mepw kvt\ln¨p
hi¯m¡m\pÅ DZyaw. CXmWv t{]mþBIvSohv kao]\w.
t{]mþBIvSohv Bbn«pÅhÀ kz´w ZpcnX§Ä¡v
aäpÅhsc ]gnNmcmdnÃ. Fsâ PohnX¯n\v
Rm\mWp¯chmZn F¶ \ne]mSv AhÀ FSp¡p¶p
(I take responsibility
for my life). Fsâ kmlNcys¯ Rm³ Ipäs¸Sp¯nÃ.
\½psS {]iv\§Äs¡Ãmw ImcWw kmlNcy§tfm
aäpÅhtcm BsW¶p km[qIcn¡p¶ \ne]mSv
amäWw. Rm³ F´mbncn¡p¶pthm AXv C¶es¯
Fsâ sXcsªSp¸nsâbpw Xocpam\§fpsSbpw
^eamWv F¶XmWv bmYmÀ°yw.
\½n ]ecpw dnbmIvSohv BWv. dnbmIvSohv DXvIrjvS
ssienbÃ. AXv s\Käohv kz`mhamWv. {]XnIqe kmlNcy§fnÂ
sshImcnIambn \S¯p¶ {]XnIcWs¯bmWv dnbmIvSohv F¶p
hnfn¡p¶Xv.
sshImcnI{]XnIcWw Ft¸mgpw \ntj[mßIambncn¡pw.
s\än Npfn¡pI, apJw Idp¡pI, icocw hndbv¡pI,
]Ãndp½pI, I®pangn¡pI, _me³kv \jvSs¸SpI,
hmt¡äapWvSmhpI, ]Icw ho«pI, B{Ian¡pI,
sImÃpI, BßlXys¡mcp§pI, _Ôw hntÑZn¡pI,
an{Xs¯ i{Xphm¡pI CsXÃmw dnbmIvSohv BIpt¼mÄ
kw`hn¡p¶ {]XnIcW§fmWv.
a\:kwba\amWv sshImcnI]IzX. a\Êns\ {IaoIcn¨mÂ
sshImcnI]IzX t\Sm\mhpw. kwXr]vXnbpsS Ddh Bcw`nt¡WvSXv
a\Ên \n¶pamWv. kz´w at\m`mh¯nemWv
amäw hcpt¯WvSXv.
""Know
yourself, Control yourself, Give yourself'' kzbw AdnbpI,
kzbw \nb{´n¡pI, kzbw sImSp¡pI. {Ko¡v
^ntemk^nbpsS A´:k¯bmWnXv. sshImcnI]IzXbpsS A´:k¯bpw
CXp Xs¶.
tIm]s¯ \nco£n¨v \nb{´n¡phm³
]Tn¡Ww. tIm]kmlNcy§sf Hgnhm¡Ww. tIm]w {`m´nsâ
sNdnb cq]amWv. C¶v tIm]n¡pIbnà F¶v Znhkhpw
cmhnse {]XnÚ FSp¡Ww. £an¡phm\pw s]mdp¡phm\papÅ
Hcp am\knImhØ hfÀ¯nsbSp¡Ww. \Ã
kulrZ§Ä DWvSmbm tIm]s¯ Ipdbv¡phm³
km[n¡pw.
\Ã `£WcoXnbpw Nn«bmb PohnX{Iahpw hymbmahpw
sshImcnI]IzXbv¡v A\pIqe LSI§fmWv. GXp kmlNcys¯bpw
bpàn`{Zambn t\cnSphm\pÅ am\knIamb Hcp¡wþ
AXmWv sshImcnI]IzXbpsS ASnØm\{]amWw. PohnXs¯ {]kmZmßIamb
Nn´Ifm \ndbv¡pI, ip`{]Xo£tbmsS t\cnSpI.
Bßss[cyhpw Bß\nb{´Whpw BÀÖn¡pI.
]IzXbpsS am\§fn apt¶dpI. |
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