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H¶v G{]nen "dotUgvkv ssUPÌv' {]kn²oIcn¨
Zpc´IY.
Atacn¡bnse {]apJ Ipämt\zjW GP³knbmb F^v._n.sF
(s^Ud _yqtdm Hm^v C³shÌntKj³)bnse DtZymKØ
ta[mhnbmWv tXmakv Ip¡v. kz]p{Xsâ ZpchØsb¡pdn¨pÅ
At±l¯nsâ ]cntZh\w C§s\ : ""temI¯nepÅ
BscbpwImÄ A[nIambn Fsâ aIs\ Xn·bnÂ\n¶pw
Im¯pkwc£n¡m³ F\n¡p IgntbWvSXmbncp¶p.
]t£ Rm³ AXp sNbvXnÃ. Xn·bpsS IS¶pIbäw
ap³hmXnen¡qSn Bbncn¡psa¶p IcpXn
Rm³ AhnsS Pm{KX ]peÀ¯n. ]t£ AXp ]n³hmXnÂ
hgn IS¶v Fsâ {]nb ]p{Xs\ hngp§n¡fªp
''.
lrZbkv]Àinbmb Cu IYbnse \mbI³, tXmakv Ip¡nsâ
19 hbÊpImc³ ]p{X³ B³{Uq BWv. Ipäw
sIme]mXIw. acWin£ Im¯v Zn\§Ä XÅn
\o¡p¶p. in£bnÂ\n¶p tamN\w Akm[ysa¶v
]nXmhv Dd¸n¨p.
B³{Uq sNbvX Ipäsa´msWt¶m? tImfPv hnZymÀ°nIfmb
cWvSp IanXm¡Ä sskzckÃm]¯n\v ]«W¯nse
Hcp ]mÀ¡n F¯nbXmbncp¶p. kabw AÀ²cm{Xn.
s]s«¶v Hcp ImÀ AhnsSsb¯n. AXnÂ
\n¶v Hcp bphmhv ]pdt¯¡p NmSnbnd§n. bmsXmcp
{]tIm]\hpw IqSmsX Ahsâ ssIbnse \ndtXm¡v B bphanYp\§fpsS
t\tc {]tbmKn¨p. XpSsc Nodn¸mª shSnbpWvSIÄ
AhcpsS IY Ign¨p. h¶ Imdn¯s¶ sImebmfn
Xncn¨p t]mbn.
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sR«n. At\zjW¯nsâ NpaXe tXmakv Ip¡n\v
. hn[n ssh]coXysa¶ÃmsX F´p ]dbm³. Xp¼p
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Hcp t^m¬tImÄ. hnfn¨Xv IogptZymKس.
At\zjW¯nsâ KXn At±l¯nsâ ]p{X³
B³{Uphn F¯n \n¡p¶p F¶Xmbncp¶p
ktµiw. CXv At±ls¯ sR«n¨p. ]t£,
B ]nXmhn\v AXv hnizmkambn tXm¶nbnÃ. F¦nepw
im´ambn aIs\ tNmZyw sN¿m³ At±lw k¶²\mbn.
]p{X³ BZyw Hgnªpamdm³ {ian¨p. Ahsâ
tXm¡v apJy sXfnhmbn«pWvSv F¶dnªt¸mÄ
Ah³ ]nXmhnt\mSp Ipäw Gäp]dªp. At±l¯n\p
Xm§mhp¶Xntesdbmbncp¶p AXv.
tIkv t\cmb hgn¡p Xs¶ \o§n, tImSXnbn ]nXmhns\
km£nbmbn hnkvXcn¨p. ""hnizkvXX, BßmÀ°X,
Bßss[cyw'' F¶ F^v._n.sFbpsS ap{ZmhmIyw BZÀihmIyambn
kzoIcn¨ At±lw kXykÔX ssIshSnbm³ X¿mdmbnÃ.
aI³ Xt¶mSp ]dª hkvXpXIÄ ad¨p hbv¡msX
AtXhn[w ]nXmhv tImSXnbn km£ys¸Sp¯n.
]cnWX^ew AbmÄ ap³Iq«n IWvSp.
HSphn in£ {]Jym]n¨p. acWin£ Xs¶.
acWhpw Im¯v Zn\cm{X§Ä F®n¡gnbp¶
B³{Uphpw ZpxJmÀ¯\mb ]nXmhpw \½psS ap¼nÂ
hnhn[ tNmZy§fpWÀ¯p¶p.
B³{Uphns\ sImebmfnbm¡nbXn\p ]n¶n Ahsâ
IpSpw_m´co£¯n\pÅ ]¦v hyàambncp¶p.
IpSpw_¯n amXmhpw ]nXmhpw X½nepÅ Akzmcky§sf¯pSÀ¶v
amXmhv CfbIp«nIfpambn Øew hn«p. aq¯h\mb
B³{Up AÑsâ kwc£Wbnembn. amXmhnÂ\n¶p
e`nt¡WvS kvt\lhmbv]pw IcpXepw \ÂIm³ Ipämt\zjI\mb
]nXmhn\p IgnªnÃ; IgnbpIbpanÃ. CXv B aIsâ
PohnX¯n iq\yXmt_m[w hfÀ¯n. XtâXmb
temI¯v sskzchnlmcw \S¯nb Ahs\ icnbmbn a\Ênem¡m³
]nXmhn\p IgnªnÃ. CuizchnizmkamWv Cu Zpc´t\c¯v
]nSn¨p\n¡m³ B ]nXmhns\ {]m]vX\m¡nbXv.
`qanbn ]Wnbs¸Sp¶ kzÀKw... ssZh¯nsâ
]²Xnbn hncnª ]q¦mh\w... "kz]v\§Ä
Ae¦cn¡pw \½psS hoSv IWvSv kzÀKw
\mWn¡p¶p...' kzmÀ°X shSnªv k¼qÀ®
kaÀ¸Ww... kvt\l¯nsâ BÄcq]§fmb
amXm]nXm¡Ä... Ahsc CuizcXpeyw ImWp¶ {]nba¡Ä...
`qanbnse Hmtcm IpSpw_hpw \{k¯nse Xncp¡pSpw_ambn¯ocs«
F¶mhs« DÅw \odnbpÅ \½psS {]mÀ°\.
aZÀ sXtck ]dbp¶Xpt]mse kvt\l¯nsâ XpS¡w
\½psS IpSpw_§fnemWv. AXv Bcw`n¡p¶Xv Hcpan¨v
{]mÀ°n¡pt¼mgmWv. Hcpan¨p {]mÀ°n¡p¶
IpSpw_w \ne\n¡pw. {]mÀ°n¡p¶
IpSpw_w X§Ä¡p Npäpw _eh¯mb tIm«
]Wnbp¶psh¶v hnip² tPm¬ acnb hnbm\n km£ys¸Sp¯p¶p.
\sÃmcp IpSpw_n\n... \sÃmcp A½ IpSpw_¯nsâ
hnf¡v. kv{Xo¡v tdmfpItfsd. AtX, ZpxJs¯ ]pjv]§fm¡p¶
C{µPmew. HcpZnhkw Nne IpSpw_n\nIÄ H¯ptNÀ¶v
BÂ_À«v sF³Ìo\nsâ `mcybpambn
kwkmcn¡pIbmbncp¶p.
""ktlmZco, \n§Ä Hcp {][m\ imkv{X]WvUnXsâ
`mcybmWtÃm. \n§fpsS `À¯mhv IWvSp]nSn¨n«pÅ
"Xobdn Hm^v dnteänhnän' (Bt]£nI kn²m´w)sb¡pdn¨v
F{Xam{Xw AdnhmWv \n§Ä¡pÅXv'' Hcp ho«½
tNmZyicsabvXp.
sF³Ìo\nsâ `mcybpsS adp]Sn DS³ vh¶p:
""Fsâ `À¯mhnsâ hnÚm\
hym]vXnsb¸än F\ns¡m¶pw Xs¶ AdnbnÃ.
F¶m Fsâ `À¯mhns\ F\n¡v \¶mbdnbmw.
Hcp IpSpw_n\n¡v C{Xam{Xatà AdntbWvS BhiyapÅq''.
D¯a IpSpw_n\nbpsS ISa \nÀhNn¨ hm¡pIÄ...
`À¯mhns\ DÅn {]XnjvTn¨ kvt\labn...
IÀ¯hy\njvTbpÅ `mcy.
`mcybpsS hyànXzs¯ am\n¡p¶ `À¯mhv...
IpSpw_¯nsâ apt¶m«pÅ {]bmW¯n\v
X]ky A\pjvTn¡p¶ ]pWys¸« a\kv. Ip«nIfpsS
kvt\lnX\pw hgnIm«nbpw. in£Ww \ÂIn Ahsc XeapdIÄ¡v
kpIrXw sNbvXhcmbn amäp¶ Ir]mISm£w... ]n©pa\kv
thZ\n¨mÂ...tcmK¯m ]oUn¸n¡s¸«mÂ...
BcpadnbmsX DÅpcpIn Icbp¶ {]nbs¸« Aѳ.
D¯a `À¯mhnsâ Nn{Xw tXSn Ncn{X¯nÂ
A[nIw At\zjWw \St¯WvSXnÃ. \½psS cmjv{S]nXmhmb
KmÔnPnbpsS IpSpw_PohnXw Xs¶ t{ijvtTmZmlcWw.
IkvXqÀ_m acWaSª t\cw. AhcpsS `uXnIicocw Zln¸n¡m\pÅ
XbmsdSp¸pIÄ ]qÀ¯nbmbn. IÀaw Xocp¶Xphsc
KmÔnPn AhnsS¯s¶ Ccn¡pIbmbncp¶p. ""`mcybpsS
`uXnIicocw I¯n¯ocp¶Xp hsc AhnsS¯s¶
Ccnt¡WvSXptWvSm? '' AcnI¯pWvSmbncp¶ HcmÄ
At±lt¯mSp tNmZn¨p.
KmÔnPn thZ\tbmsS ]dªp: ""Adp]¯n cWvSv
BWvSpIÄ Rm³ IkvXqÀ_mtbmsSm¸w Pohn¨h\mWv.
Ct¸mÄ AhcpsS icocw Fcnªp Xocp¶Xn\pap¼v
Rm³ Xncn¨pt]mbm Fsâ "_m' (IkvXqÀ_m)
Ft¶mSp £an¡nÃ. ''
amXrIm Z¼XnIfmbncp¶p KmÔnPnbpw IkvXqÀ_bpw
"a\pkvarXn'bn C{]Imcw ]dbp¶p:
"Let mutual fidelity continue till death. This may be considered
as a summary of the highest law for husband and wife”.
""]ckv]c hnizkvXX acWw hsc \oWvSp\n¡s«.
`mcym`À¯m¡·mÀ¡pÅ
D¶X \nba¯nsâ s]mcpfmbn CXp ]cnKWn¡pI''.
AtX a\pkvarXnbnse ktµiw PohnX¯n {]mhÀ¯nIam¡nb
Zm¼Xyambncp¶p KmÔnPnbpsSbpw IkvXqÀ_bpsSXpw.
kv{XoIÄ¡v A½bpsS hnip² hyànXzw
t]tdWvSXpWvSv. inip]me\¯n kzbw AenªpXocp¶hÀ.
Ip«nbpsS hyànXz hnIk\¯n\p ]mXsbmcp¡p¶hÀ.
ssZhkvt\l¯nsâ _me]mT§Ä Ahsâ ImXnÂ
HmXns¡mSpt¡WvShÀ.
CXm FUnks\ cq]s¸Sp¯nb A½.
tXmakv BÂhm FUnks\ At±l¯nsâ kvIqf[ym]I³
"H¶n\pw sImÅm¯h³ ' F¶v FgpXn¯Ån.
"FUnksâ incknsâ \nÀamWw {]IrXn¡p
hncp²ambn«pÅXmWv. AXn\m ASp¯pXs¶
CbmÄ {`m´\mImw' F¶v At±ls¯ ]cntim[n¨
tUmIvSdpw km£ys¸Sp¯n.F¶m FUnksâ
amXmhmIs« Chs\ Rm³ Hcp henb a\pjy\m¡pw F¶
ZrV\nÝbt¯msS Ah\p hnZym`ymkw \ÂIn. A½bpsS
\nc´camb ]cn{ia¯mepw {]mÀ°\bmepw FUnk¬
Hu¶Xy¯nÂ\n¶v Hu¶Xy¯nte¡p
IpXn¨p.
"a\pjy³ ASnas¸«n«pÅXv _p²n¡Ã
]cn{ia¯n\mWv. Cuizc³ hc§Ä hn¡p¶p.
a\pjysâ ]cn{iaamWv AXnsâ hne' F¶ AÛpXamb
kXys¯ FUnk¬ ]n¶oSv shfns¸Sp¯pIbpWvSmbn.
At±lw ]dªXpt]mse Xs¶ kz´w PohnX¯nepw
At±lw hnPbw t\Sn.
AtX, {]nb kplrt¯, Hc½bpsS I®oÀ F¶pw
ssZh¯n\p hnes¸«XmWv, kzÀK¯n\pw.
{]mÀ°\tbmsSbpÅ I®oÀ hgn AZv`pX§Ä
{]hÀ¯n¡pw.
amXm]nXm¡fpsS kvt\lw e`n¡m¯ a¡Ä.
{Inan\epIsf krjvSn¡p¶ _mehmSnIfmbn \½psS IpSpw_§Ä
amdtà F¶p {]mÀ°n¡pI. a¡Ä¡p
kvt\lw Xpeyambn \ÂIpI. "]Ip¯p sImSp¡pIbÃ
hÀ²n¸n¨p sImSp¡pIbmWv' F¶v
amXrIm `mcybpsS samgnIÄ.
s]]vknt¡mbpsS kn.C.H C{Zm\qbn¡v Xncn¨dnhpWvSmbn.
ho«nemWv Xsâ {]Ya ZuXysa¶v Xncn¨dnRv AhÀ
]dªp:
I am a Mother first
then a CEO
then a wife.
(Rm³ H¶maXmbn A½bmWv, ]ns¶ No^v FIvknIyq«ohv
Hm^okÀ, ]ns¶ `mcy)
KmÀlnI k`bmb IpSpw_t¯mSpÅ IS¸mSpIÄ
ad¡cpXv kplrt¯. \o temIs¯hnsSbmbmepw \nsâ
{]nb \mYs\m¸w \nsâ IpSpw_mwK§fpw a\knepWvSmIs«.
shÃphnfnIÄ t\cnSm³ Icp¯pWvSmIs«.
IpSpw_PohnX¯nsâ ]mT§Ä ]dªpXcp¶
IhnX CXm:
""A¶w sImSp¡pI
AÀ°w sImSp¡pI
DÅnepdh häm¯
kvt\lw sImSp¯p sImþ
WvSp¶w ]ngbv¡m¯
Iev]\ sImSp¡pI'
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