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tUm.sPbnwkv
hS¡pwtNcn
({Inant\mfPnÌv & AUz¡äv) |
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t]meokv IÌUnbn ]oUn¸n¡p¶
DtZymKØÀs¡Xntc \nba\S]Sn FSp¡p¶Xn\p
ap¼mbn Ahsc ssk¡m{SnIv ]cntim[\bv¡p hnt[bcm¡n
am\knI NnInÕ sImSpt¡WvSXmWv. A§s\ tcmKw
amänb tijw \nba \S]SnIfnte¡pw hIp¸pXe At\zjW§fnte¡pw
t]mhpI. ]e XkvXnIIfnte¡papÅ \nba\§Ä
KpWta·sb ASnØm\am¡nbÃ; adn¨v,
Hmtcmcp¯À¡pÅ cmjv{Sob kzm[o\a\pkcn¨msW¶
Imcyw ]ckyamsbmcp clkyamWv. kÀhokn tPment\m¡p¶
thfbn apXnÀ¶ DtZymKØÀ¡v
Hmtcmcp¯cpsS {]hr¯nIfpw {]hr¯n sshIey§fpw
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a\pjymhImikwc£W\nbaw
C´ybn {]m_ey¯n h¶ DSs\ t]meokv
s{Sbn\nwKv tImfPn "kÀhoknepÅ k_v C³kvs]IvSÀamÀ¡mbn'
Hcp {]tXyI ]cnioe\¡fcn kwLSn¸n¨p. AXnÂ
¢mskSp¯p sImWvSncns¡ Hcp k_v C³kvs]IvSÀ
hfsc hnck\mbpw A{i²tbmsSbpw Ccn¡p¶Xp IWvSv;
Rm³ At±l¯nt\mSp tNmZn¨p: ""F´p
]än? ¢mkn XmÂ]cyw ImWp¶nÃsÃm?
Rm³ ]dbp¶ Imcy§Ä {i²tbmsS tIÄ¡q.
\n§Ä¡nXv Fs¶¦nepw D]Imcs¸Spw''.
AXn\p adp]Snbmbn At±lw ]dªp: ""kmÀ
]dbp¶hn[sam¶pw t]meokn\v sN¿m\mhnÃ.
ChnsS Ipsd aq¶mwapdbpw `bs¸Sp¯epanÃmsX
t]meokn\p Imcy£aambn {]hÀ¯n¡m\mhnÃ''.
Rm³ hoWvSpw ]dªp: ""Xm¦fpsS CjvSw
t]mse sN¿pI. ]t£, Xm¦fpsS {]hr¯nIfpsS
A\´c^ehpw IqsS Xm¦Ä Häbv¡v GsäSp¡m\pw
kln¡m\pw X¿mdmhpIbpw sN¿pI''.
B ]T\¡fcn Ahkm\n¨p. cWvSmgvN Ignªt¸mÄ
]{X¯nsemcp hmÀ¯ IWvSp. A¶v Fsâ ¢mkv
AhKWn¨ k_v C³kvs]IvSÀ Hcmsf AImcWambn ]nSn¨psImWvSpt]mbn
aÀZn¨Xns\¯pSÀ¶v AbmÄ t]meokv
IÌUnbn acWs¸«psh¶v. B k_v C³kvs]IvSÀs¡Xntc
tIkv cPnÌÀ sNbvXp. tImSXn At±ls¯ Poh]cy´w
in£n¨p. sslt¡mSXnbn A¸oÂ
sImSps¯¦nepw Iogvt¡mSXnhn[n icnhbv¡pIbmWpWvSmbXv.
PbnenÂ\n¶p ]tcmfn\v \m«n hcpt¼mÄ
At±lw Fs¶ ImWm³ hcpambncp¶p. At±ls¯
ASp¯v \nco£n¨p ]Tn¨t¸mÄ F\ns¡mcp
Imcyw hyàambn. "hyànXz sshIeyw'¯n\ncbmbncp¶
Hcp \nba]meI\mbncp¶p At±lsa¶v.
ap¸Xp hÀj¡mes¯ ZoÀLamb Fsâ
DtZymK PohnX¯n\nSbn Rm³ \S¯nbn«pÅ
]T\§Ä, \nco£W§Ä, KthjW§Ä
FÃmw hnc NqWvSp¶Xv Hcp kXy¯n\v t\scbmWv.
t]meokn aq¶mwapd D]tbmKn¡p¶hÀþ
aÀ±n¡p¶hÀþ ]oUn¸n¡p¶hscÃmw
Xs¶ HcpXcw am\knI sshIrX¯n\SnaIfmsW¶v. A¡q«À
hcp¯nhbv¡p¶ If¦w t]meokv hIp¸nsâ
Xs¶ {]XnÑmb P\a[y¯n XIÀ¡pIbmWv.
A¼Xn\mbnct¯mfw AwK§Ä DÄs¡mÅp¶
Hcp tkh\ taJebmWv t]meokv. e£¡W¡n\mfpIfpambn
_Ôs¸SpIbpw ]Xn\mbnc¡W¡n\v tIkpIÄ
cPnÌÀ sNbvXv {]XnIsf AdÌv sNbvXv AhÀs¡XntcbpÅ
Ipämt\zjWw \S¯pIbpw sN¿p¶ t]meokptZymKØÀ
AhcneÀ¸nXamb D¯chmZnXzw \ndthäpt¼mÄ
AXnehÀ A`nam\w sImÅmdpWvSv. F¶mÂ, AXn\nSbnÂ
"hyànXz sshIeyw' DÅ GXm\pwNne Ipämt\zjIÀ/\nba]meIÀ
ImWn¨p Iq«p¶ aq¶mwapd {]tbmK§Ä
Hcp hIp¸ns\¯s¶ P\a[y¯n CSn¨p
XIÀ¯p Xcn¸Wam¡pIbmWp sN¿p¶sXt¶mÀ¡pI.
]me¡m«v ]p¯qÀ h[t¡knepw Im«m¡SbnÂ
DWvSmb Nne tIkpIfnepw sXmSp]pgbnse tNmZyt¸¸À
hnhmZt¡knepw DWvSmsb¶v Btcm]n¡s¸Sp¶
aÀ±\apdIÄ t]meosk¶ kÀhokv taJesb¯s¶
If¦s¸Sp¯nbncn¡pIbmWvþ XfÀ¯n¡fªncn¡pIbmWv.
IÌUn acW§Äþ aÀ±\§Äþ
]oU\§Ä: FÃmw hyànXz sshIey e£W§Ä
hyànXzsshIeyapÅ t]meokptZymKØsc AhcpsS ]cnioe\
ImeL«¯n¯s¶ Xncn¨dnbmhp¶XmWv.
APA ¢mkn^nt¡j³ A\pkcn¨v A¡q«cnÂ
\mw ImWp¶ am\knI sshIrXs¯ "\mÀknÌn¡v
t]gvk\menän UntkmUÀ' (Narcissistic Personality Disorder)
F¶p ]dbp¶p. F´mWv AXnsâ {]tXyIX? 1. Xm³
Bscms¡tbmþ Fs´m¡tbm BsW¶ AXncp
IS¶ hnNmcw A¡q«À¡pWvSmhp¶p.
X§fpsS t\«§sf þ KpWhntij§sf ]ÀÆXoIcn¨v
ImWp¶p. ^etam? Bsc¦nepw {]kvXpX Nn´bvt¡m
hnNmc¯nt\m lnXIcaÃm¯ hn[¯n {]hÀ¯n¨mÂ
AhÀ¡Xv kln¡m\mhp¶nÃ. `mhw sImtWvSm,
`mj sImtWvSm A§s\ s]cpamdp¶psh¶p tXm¶nbmehÀ
AXns\ Ak`y`mj sImWvSpw aq¶mwapd {]tbmK¯neqsSbpw ssIImcyw
sNbvXsX¶p hcmw.
t]meokv IÌUnbn acWs¸« 22 t]sc ]Tn¨t¸mghscÃmw
km¼¯nIambn hfsc ]n¶m¡w \n¡p¶hcmbncp¶psh¶pw
A¡q«cpsS acWImcWw AhcpsS s]cpamä¯nse A]mIXIfmbncp¶psh¶pw
a\Ênem¡m\mbn.
2. koaIfnÃm¯hn[w hnPbwþ CXmWhcpsS `mh\bnÂ
InS¡p¶Xv. AhÀ¡v AanXamb AwKoImcapsWvS¶
[mÀjvSywþ A]mc Ignhpw _p²nbpw anIhpapsWvS¶
tXm¶Â. ^etam? Bsc¦nepw AXns\ tNmZyw sNbvXmÂ
Ahsc B{Ian¡pIsb¶Xv Cu AkpJ¯nsâ {]tXyIXbmWv.
t]meokv IÌUnbn acWs¸Sp¶hcpsS t]mÌptamÀ«w
dnt¸mÀ«v IWvSmednbmw Ahc\p`hn¨ ]oU\¯nsâ
Bghpw hym]vXnbpw. Hcp IpäIrXyt¯mSv A\p_Ôn¨pÅ
sXfnhv tiJcn¡mt\m kXyw IsWvS¯m\pÅ hy{KXbntem
aÀ±\¯n\p hnt[bcmIp¶hcÃhÀ,
{]XypX, AhcpsS s]cpamäw t]meokptZymKØsâ "CutKm'bv¡v
Cjvs¸«nÃsb¶Xp Xs¶ AXnsâ apJyImcWhpw.
3. aäpÅhcpsS hnImc§tfmSpÅ XWp¸³
{]XnIcWw, hnaÀi\§tfmSpÅ \nkwKX ChcnÂ
ImWp¶p. tIm]w, Acniw, aäpÅhsc sIm¨m¡Â,
aÀ±n¡Â, sXdn ]db XpS§nb
s]cpamä sshIey§fpÅhcmWnhÀ.
kzbw \nb{´n¡m\pw X§fnse arKob hmk\Isf ISnªmWn«v
\nebv¡p \nÀ¯m\pw Ignbm¯ ChÀ¡v
Ipämt\zjWthfbnse tNmZyw sN¿Â hnjb¯nÂ
Imcyamb ]T\tam ]cnioe\tam DÅhcÃ. t]meokv IÌUnbnÂ
acWs¸« tIkpIfn \nba \S]SnIÄ¡p
hnt[bcmb 60 t]sc ]Tn¨t¸mÄ
Ahcn _lp`qcn]£hpw kmZm t]meokpImcpw slUvtIm¬Ì_nÄamcpamsW¶p
a\Ênem¡m\mbn. hnZym`ymk]cambn DbÀ¶ \nehmcw
]peÀ¯p¶hcmbncp¶nà AhÀ. hyànXzsshIrXt¯msSm¸w
hnhchpw hnZym`ymkhpw Csöp h¶m AXv Imcy§sf
IqSpX hjfm¡psa¶ Imcy¯n XÀ¡anÃ.
IÌUnbn h¨pÅ ]oU\§Ä¡dpXn
hcp¯m\pw IÌUn acW§sf CÃmbva sN¿m\pw
tI{µkÀ¡mÀ \nbaw sImWvSphcp¶psh¶dnbp¶p.
AXv \Ã Imcyw Xs¶. ]t£, H¶p tNmZnt¨ms«.
am\knI tcmK§sfbpw hyànXzsshIrX§sfbpw \nbaw
aqew ssIImcyw sN¿m\mhptam? am\knI NnInÕ \ÂIn
]cnlcnt¡WvS H¶mWv aq¶mwapd {]tbmKssienIÄ.
AXn\p ]Icw aq¶mwapd {]tbmKn¡p¶hÀ¡v
10 sImÃw hsc Pbn in£ sImSp¯XpsImsWvS´p
{]tbmP\w?
hyànXzsshIey§fpÅhÀ \oXn\nÀÆlWcwK¯v
IS¶phcmXncn¡m\mbn sXcsªSp¡p¶ thfbn¯s¶
]cntim[\Ifpw ]T\§fpw \St¯WvSXmWv. AXn\mbn sKmsd I½nän
\nÀt±i§Ä 1973 apX \ne\n¡p¶psWvS¦nepw
AXns\ thWvShn[w \S¸m¡p¶Xn\mbn kÀ¡mtcm
]»nIv kÀhokv I½ojt\m X¿mdmIp¶nsöXmWp
kXyw. aÀ±\apdIfpw aq¶mwapd {]tbmK§fpw
]mSnsöp hmtXmcmsX ]dbp¶hÀ F´psImWvSv
{InbmßIambn s]cpamdp¶nÃ?
t]meokptZymKØÀ¡v Hcp hÀjw \ofp¶
]cnioe\hpw kmZm t]meokpImÀ¡v H¼Xpamkw ssZÀLyapÅ
]cnioe\hpw sImSp¡p¶pWvSv. B ImeL«¯nÂ
hyànXz sshIeyapÅhsc IsWvS¯m\mhpw. Hmtcmcp¯sc¡pdn¨p
\S¯p¶ hyànKX hnebncp¯Â h¨v Ahsc
\nban¨m {]iv\¯ns\mcp ]cn[nhsc ]cnlmcw IsWvS¯m\mhpw.
]t£, A¯c¯nepÅ hnebncp¯Â C¶nÃ.
]e XkvXnIIfnte¡papÅ \nba\§Ä KpWta·sb
ASnØm\am¡nbÃ; adn¨v, Hmtcmcp¯À¡pÅ
cmjv{Sob kzm[o\a\pkcn¨msW¶ Imcyw ]ckyamsbmcp clkyamWv.
kÀhokn tPment\m¡p¶ thfbn apXnÀ¶
DtZymKØÀ¡v Hmtcmcp¯cpsS {]hr¯nIfpw
{]hr¯n sshIey§fpw ]Tn¡mhp¶tXbpÅq.
]t£, Xt¶¡mÄ IqSpX kzm[o\iànbpÅ
IogptZymKØsâ ap¼n \nÊlmb\mbn
t\m¡n \nÂt¡WvSnhcp¶ D¶Xm[nImcnbpsS
am\knI ]ncnapdp¡w Duln¡mhp¶tXbpÅq. C¡mcy§sfms¡
IW¡nseSp¡msX, \nba \nÀ½mWw sImWvSp
{]iv\]cnlmcw IsWvS¯msa¶p hymtamln¡p¶Xns\¡pdns¨´v
]dbm\mWv?
1860þ FgpXnb C´y³ in£m \nba¯n¯s¶,
aq¶mwapd {]tbmK¯ns\Xntc hIp¸pIÄ DWvSv.
1855þ \nban¡s¸« tSmÀ¨À
I½ojsâ \nÀt±i{]Imcw {]m_ey¯nÂ
sImWvSph¶ aq¶mwapd {]tbmK¯ns\XntcbpÅ \nba§Ä
\S¸nem¡m³ Ignbm¯hÀ sFIycmjv{SkwLS\bpsS
XmÂ]cy{]Imcw 2010 ]p¯³ \nbaw sImWvSp
h¶meXv ^e{]Zamb coXnbn \S¸nem¡m\mhptam
F¶ Imcy¯n ]eÀ¡pw i¦bpWvSv.
F´mbmepw Hcp Imcyw \nÀt±in¡m³
Rm³ B{Kln¡p¶p. t]meokv IÌUnbnÂ
]oUn¸n¡p¶ DtZymKØÀs¡Xntc
\nba\S]Sn FSp¡p¶Xn\p ap¼mbn Ahsc ssk¡m{SnIv
]cntim[\bv¡p hnt[bcm¡n am\knI NnInÕ sImSpt¡WvSXmWv.
A§s\ tcmKw amänb tijw \nba \S]SnIfnte¡pw hIp¸pXe
At\zjW§fnte¡pw t]mhpI. ImcWw at\mtcmK¯n\v hIp¸pXe
At\zjWhpw PbnÂhmkhpw ]ngin£bpw ]cnlmcasöXp
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